Relationship insecurity

You compare yourself to their ex. You wonder why they're with you. Deep down, you're waiting for them to realise they can do better. These feelings often have roots in how you learned to see yourself.

Counsellors who may be able to help

Julia Wakefield-Harrey
Professional Counsellor
Surrey
Online & In-personMicrosoft TeamsPhoneZoom

Welcome. I’m Julia, an accredited integrative counsellor who believes in creating a space where people feel safe, understood, and accepted. I work with…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with abortion, abuse and more
  • Offers online and in-person sessions
  • Has 3 client testimonials
Works with:MiscarriageChild counsellingInfertilityYoung people's counsellingSeparation and divorcePostnatal depression
Caroline Ellison
Professional Counsellor
Hampshire
Online & In-personZoom

Hi, I’m Caroline Ellison. I offer both in-person and online counselling, EMDR Therapy, and Couples Therapy from my peaceful, air-conditioned counselling cabin…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with abortion, adhd and more
  • Offers online and in-person sessions
  • Has client testimonial
"“Caroline has supported us for the past 19 months, and looking back, I can honestly say working with her has been the…"
— Client
Works with:DisabilitiesRelationship problemsAbortionNarcissistic abuseBurnoutSuicidal thoughts
Miles Torchwick
Psychotherapist
Aberdeenshire
Online & In-personGoogle Meet

I’m a Person-Centred Therapist working with Adults, Children and Young People. I believe deeply that healing begins in relationship, in feeling safe enough to…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with abuse, addiction and more
  • Offers online and in-person sessions
  • Has client testimonial
Works with:AbuseSelf-harmAdoption counselling for childrenAttachment disorderBipolar disorderChildhood bereavement
Terry Duffin
Marriage and Family Therapist
South Yorkshire
Online & In-personMicrosoft TeamsPhone

I work with people of all ages individually I also work with couples and with families face to face in Sheffield and online throughout the UK. I'm a qualified…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with adhd, adoption counselling for adults and more
  • Offers online and in-person sessions
  • Has client testimonial
Works with:Child counsellingPanic attacksYoung people's counsellingAffairs and betrayalsLow self-confidenceChildhood bereavement
Kirsty Cartwright
Counsellor Therapist
Gloucestershire
Online & In-personMicrosoft Teams

Hi, I'm Kirsty, and I am a counsellor who works both online, and face to face with adults and young people in my Tewkesbury town centre practice on a one to…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with abuse, anxiety and more
  • Offers online and in-person sessions
  • Based in Gloucestershire (+4 areas)
Works with:NeurodiversityBereavementDepressionGeneralised anxiety disorder (GAD)AbuseSeparation and divorce
Sian Collins
Life Coach
Mid Glamorgan
OnlineGoogle MeetZoom

Hi, I’m Sian. I’m a Confidence & Mindset Coach and Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) Hypnotherapist, and I help women calm their overthinking, release…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with bereavement, bullying and more
  • Offers online sessions
  • Has 2 client testimonials
"“Working with Sian has been truly transformative. Her coaching and hypnotherapy sessions have significantly reduced my…"
— Client
Works with:SpiritualityCancerMenopausePanic attacksPerfectionismFamily issues

Experiences that may feel familiar

The contrast between the little me that started seeing Annette and the big Me that I am now is stark. I was disappointed, disillusioned and depressed, always pleasing others. I felt exhausted and...

“I had been struggling with attachment issues, anxiety, and a sense of lack of purpose, which deeply affected my life and made dating particularly difficult. My sessions with Reena were truly...