Why do I feel not good enough?

No matter what you achieve, it's never enough. The goalposts keep moving. You compare yourself to others and always come up short. This feeling often started long before you could question it.

Counsellors who may be able to help

Teri spinks
Professional Counsellor
South Yorkshire
Online & In-personGoogle Meet

I see therapy as a confidential, supportive space where you can explore who you are, understand what’s holding you back, and move toward the life you want. My…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with abuse, anxiety and more
  • Offers online and in-person sessions
  • Based in South Yorkshire
Works with:Work-related stressBinge-eating disorderMiscarriagePanic attacksLow self-esteemDepression
Roger Hughes
Other
Kent
OnlineSkypeZoom

Accredited EMDR Therapist & Trauma-Informed Coach — UK-Wide Online Support. If you’re carrying trauma, anxiety, panic, burnout, or that “I’m functioning but…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with abortion, abuse and more
  • Offers online sessions
  • Has client testimonial
Works with:AlcoholismPost-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)PerfectionismCareer counsellingSexual assaultTrauma
Elaine Knight-Roberts
Counsellor Therapist
South Gloucestershire
Online & In-personGoogle MeetPhone

Are you feeling overwhelmed, carrying a grief too heavy to share, or feeling the weight of the invisible wounds of emotional abuse or childhood trauma? Maybe…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with abortion, anxiety and more
  • Offers online and in-person sessions
  • Has 2 client testimonials
Works with:Domestic abusePostnatal depressionAnxietyCancerBereavementEmotional abuse
Eva Vass
Eva Vassshe/her
Professional Counsellor
Berkshire
Online & In-personGoogle Meet

I would like to offer you safe and confidential “walk and talk” sessions in Bracknell if that's near enough to where you are based and also if you are…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with abuse, adhd and more
  • Offers online and in-person sessions
  • Has 3 client testimonials
Works with:SpiritualityBullyingFamily issuesGeneralised anxiety disorder (GAD)Work-related stressLow self-esteem
Richard Hennessy
Other
South Yorkshire
Online & In-personGoogle MeetMicrosoft TeamsPhone

The Sheffield Wellness Centre, which I own and manage, has over 60 therapists registered with it and the majority of them are counsellors, psychologists,…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with abortion, abuse and more
  • Offers online and in-person sessions
  • Has 3 client testimonials
Works with:Emotional abuseSeparation anxietyChildless not by choiceMoneyHigh sensitivityBipolar disorder
Julie Jenner
Counsellor Therapist
Cornwall
OnlineGoogle Meet

Hello there. I’m Julie, a neurodivergent counsellor. I work online, which adds more flexibility and the chance for you to be where you are most comfortable. If…

Why this counsellor may help
  • Works with addiction, adhd and more
  • Offers online sessions
Works with:Passive-aggressive behaviourAnger managementAutismPost-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)Relationship problemsAnxiety

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